Even if you’re out of sync with a partner, you can be in sync with yourself: the Sync is amazing even with just one person.įor this We-Vibe Sync review, I’m going to share how I use the toy alone, my thoughts on its design and function, and some slightly-informed speculation on its potential as a partner device. It’s both a discreet wearable and a Bluetooth-controlled delight. It is an effective internal and external vibrator. The Sync is a toy designed to be worn during intercourse, but that’s not its only purpose. This helps me feel less alone in my sexuality, and also helps me avoid resenting him for being in a different sexual space than me. That might be an in-person partner or someone online to flirt with. One benefit of non-monogamy is that even though my husband’s sex drive is unlikely to ever match mine, I am able to make sexual connections with other people. I wanted us to use that time to be lovers. I didn’t want to take those moments to be scientists and toy analysts. Since we weren’t having a lot of sex, using one of our precious encounters to try a toy that may or may not work well for us felt like a risk I wasn’t willing to take. Trying new toys is fun, but it’s also work. Toy testing requires a certain experimental mindset, a mindfulness and scientific level of analysis that precludes the kind of “lose yourself in the moment” joy that sex can bring. This wasn’t a great environment to try a new toy. When we did have sex, it was fairly spontaneous. Although we maintained our emotional and physical intimacy, the sexual side of our relationship was on hiatus. We have mismatched sex drives, and factors like bereavement and job stress hindered our sex life for quite some time. My husband and I don’t always have intercourse very frequently. I want to be completely direct about why I couldn’t use this toy for intercourse, even though being direct is being vulnerable. I wanted to write about how it worked for that. The Sync is a couples toy designed to be used during intercourse. I’ve used the Sync a bunch of times since receiving it, but not during intercourse, so I kept waiting to write the review. I was up-front about the fact that I wasn’t sure when I’d get to test it with a partner, but We-Vibe was very understanding about this and sent it anyway. Upon reading this in my other review, the fine folks at We-Vibe offered to send me the new version of the toy to try, the Sync. For my husband and I, the device wasn’t well-suited to our bodies, and we couldn’t make it work well during intercourse. Background: Getting the SyncĪ while back, when I wrote my first We-Vibe review, I mentioned in the post that back in 2008, I’d used an early version of a We-Vibe couples toy, when the company first entered the toy scene. This review is not just a review of the toy itself, but also a discussion of partner intimacy and some honest confessions. Guys, gals, nonbinary pals, I’m here to write this We-Vibe Sync review despite not having the perfect dataset for it, because the Time Has Come and I’m tired of the Sync staring at me and inspiring endless guilt. I’ve had the toy for a while, and I’ve been using it solo quite often, but I haven’t written this actual review… until now. I’ve put off writing this We-Vibe Sync review for an incredibly long time.
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